Ep 7: #HashtagLunchbag with Ajay Relan

#HashtagLunchbag with Ajay Relan

Episode 7: Show Notes.

It is not necessary to have all the answers to create a meaningful impact; the power is often in starting something and following a curiosity down an unknown path. Our guest today, Ajay Relan, is a great example of this message. He is behind the amazing non-profit HashtagLunchbag and also the cofounder of Hilltop Cafe in Inglewood, Los Angeles.

HashtagLunchbag is an initiative that has grown from small beginnings; Ajay and some friends packed food parcels for the hungry and homeless in their neighborhood one Christmas and now it is an international movement and an established organization creating a difference! We hear from Ajay about his younger years, his relationship with his mother, and what it meant to grow up with a single parent, who was often busy and stressed out.

He unpacks the entrepreneurial spirit that was present in his home and how that played out in his life in different ways, at different times. Ajay takes us through his college years, the small businesses he started, and the difficult emotional state in which he found himself at the end of his 20s.

We discuss meeting his father for the first time, feelings of loss, and bouts of depression — it was only through giving that Ajay was able to really address some of these issues and manage his life in a more positive manner. For an amazing story with a person with loads of courage and generosity, please be sure to listen in with us!

Key Points From This Episode:

The kinds of activities that Ajay gravitated towards at a young age.
Lessons in hard work from Ajay's mother and her entrepreneurial endeavors.
The evolution of Ajay's mother's business and his role in helping her run it.
Ajay's family history and the part that his Indian heritage has played in his life.
Hustling during college; how Ajay sold Nike Air Jordans our of his boot!
Mixed feelings after college and the emotional state that Ajay found himself in during his 20s.
The wall that Ajay hit towards the end of his 20s and the decision he made in response.
Generational trauma and the legacy of depression; Ajay's mother's struggles and medication.
The steps that Ajay took to confront his own struggles and looking to volunteering.
How Ajay connected with his father and the three questions he wanted answered.
The lasting impacts of this meeting in context of other difficult life events.
Ajay's first experience of volunteering in soup kitchen on Thanksgiving.
The inspiration that came from an old friend and led to making packed lunches to hand out.
Growing a small, experimental practice into something bigger that spread all over the world.
How Ajay's entrepreneurial experience contributed to the success of HanhtagLunchbag.
Exercising the generosity and gratitude muscles — the journey that Ajay is still on!
The components of HashtagLunchbag and the experience of working with them.
Ajay's advice for those hopeful to create similarly impactful projects.
The motivation behind Hilltop Cafe, Ajay's coffee shop in LA.